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Polygamy: What is Family?

Polygamy: What is Family?

Polygamy & The Church Recently on the Church’s website, the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints released an article, providing updated information regarding polygamy and the practice of it throughout early Church history. Polygamy is a radically different understanding of the family than frequently 

Pinterest Win! One Pot Zucchini Mushroom Pasta

Pinterest Win! One Pot Zucchini Mushroom Pasta

If you’re like me, which is to say, addicted to Pinterest, then I’m sure you’ve seen a lot of the same recipes floating around. Certain recipes get pinned hundreds of thousands of times. But I want to know, do they actually work? Or is it 

Playing Favorites? Response to Parental Favoritism

Playing Favorites? Response to Parental Favoritism

I used to joke about being the “forgotten one.” Mostly because of this picture taken at my first Christmas. The focus of the picture was actually on my older sister opening her presents; however, there I was falling over in the background, “forgotten.”

I am not sure a parent could actually forget his or her child, especially mine, but apparently there is a possibility of favoritism. Favoritism meaning the parent shows a higher interest in one sibling above all the rest. How does this make the siblings feel?

To these siblings, as shown by the results of a recent study by Professor Alex Jensen, this favoritism in families can actually have an adverse effect on the children as they grow older. Effects including an increased drug and alcohol use as the children grow older. Jensen found that it isn’t actually that the parents would intentionally treat the children differently, but it is important what the children perceive.

267496_10150248781023877_1501226_nThere may have been times that I actually thought I was the “forgotten one” or second best compared to my sister. But the truth is that my parents and many others don’t really have favorites. How can they? We are all so different and unique that they will appreciate and acknowledge different things about each child. Parents should constantly be trying to find each child’s niche, or thing that the child excels at or enjoys, and then they should support the child in every way that they can.

One of the best ways to show support is finding the time for one on one informal interviews, or just time together. Building that bond is important and will help the child have the confidence and trust in the parent and the parent’s love for him or her. Each child will perceive a relationship how they want, but parents can try their best to make sure the child knows that they love them and that is what is important.

By Karee Brown

Pumpkin Patch Oreo Pudding Cups

Pumpkin Patch Oreo Pudding Cups

Ingredients: 8 Chocolate pudding cups 1 package of Oreos 1 package of mini pumpkin candies Directions: First split 8 Oreos into halves, leaving one side with all the cream filling. Set the cream filling ones aside. Take the remaining sides of the Oreos and crush 

Wedding Wednesday: Picking the Perfect Dress

Wedding Wednesday: Picking the Perfect Dress

My name is Bryn Adams and about a month ago I got engaged to my best friend! Over the last month, my fiancée and I got a lot of planning for the wedding done. One of the major things that happened two weeks ago was 

The Ten Commandments of Procrastination

The Ten Commandments of Procrastination

  1. Start your diet… tomorrow.
  2. Push the snooze button four times. Out of bed—7:45am. Class/work—8am.
  3. Avoid putting your clean laundry away until it’s all dirty again.
  4. Leave the dishes in the sink until you bring out the paper plates because nothing is left.
  5. Fill up your car with gas only when your friend rescues you on the side of the road with a gas can.
  6. Go to the grocery store only after you have consumed your food and your roommate’s.
  7. Wait to cash that check until your card is declined on a date.
  8. Stall for bed until just before you would have to get up anyway.
  9. Delay replacing the one light bulb out in your bathroom until you have to shower in the dark.
  10.  Refuse to mow the lawn until people ask you if you live in a forest.

Procrastinators! Unite tomorrow!

 

By Chelsea Jamison, Junior Editor

Meet Conor, Blogging Editor

Meet Conor, Blogging Editor

Conor, a junior studying English and political science (aiming for a Ph.D. in English lit, Victorian perhaps, with a side of adaptation theory. Ideally not filling out unemployment papers), hails originally from Boston, but was raised primarily in Idaho Falls, Idaho. He enjoys politics, religion, 

First-Ever Failed Family Photo Contest!

First-Ever Failed Family Photo Contest!

We get it. Not every family picture is a winner. But…the laughs to be had afterward? Priceless. HENCE, our first-ever Stance Failed Family Photo contest! Starting today, we will be sharing our favorite hilarious family photos gone wrong. The top three pictures chosen by our 

First Aid Friday: CPR 101

First Aid Friday: CPR 101

cpr 2Earlier this year, I conducted a survey in Utah Valley that tested many individuals’ understanding of First-Aid. One of the most frequently missed questions was, “When performing CPR (Cardio-Pulmonary Resuscitation), how many chest compressions are done per minute?” After missing this question, the surveyees responses lead to the same statement… “I FORGOT!”

According to the American Red Cross, CPR licenses last for a total of two years until another course is required. The reasoning behind this limitation is in-part due to the normality of forgetting these skills, but as forgettable as they can be, it is important to renew CPR understanding — it could be the difference between life and death.

But fear not, Stance is here to help renew your CPR knowledge!

The Basics of CPR (Cardio-Pulmonary Resuscitation)

When attending adults in need of CPR:

AFTER CHECKING THE SCENE AND THE INJURED OR ILL PERSON:

GIVE 30 CHEST COMPRESSIONS

  • Push hard, push fast in the middle of the chest at least 2 inches deep and at least 100 compressions per minute

GIVE 2 RESCUE BREATHScpr

  • Tilt the head back and lift the chin up.
  • Pinch the nose shut then make a complete seal over the person’s mouth.
  • Blow in for about 1 second to make the chest clearly rise.
  • Give rescue breaths, one after the other.

Note: If chest does not rise with rescue breaths, retilt the head and give another rescue breath. DO NOT STOP

Continue cycles of CPR. Do not stop CPR except in one of these situations:

  • You find an obvious sign of life, such as breathing.
  • An AED is ready to use.
  • Another trained responder or EMS personnel take over.
  • You are too exhausted to continue.
  • The scene becomes unsafe.

WHAT TO DO NEXT

  • IF AN AED BECOMES AVAILABLE—use the AED
  • IF BREATHS DO NOT MAKE THE CHEST RISE— AFTER RETILTING HEAD

TIP: Person must be on firm, flat surface.

Minor Adjustments For Infant CPR:
cpr3During Chest Compressions, use two fingers (index and middle) instead of two hands. Push about 1 ½ inches deep. When performing rescue breaths make a complete seal over the infant’s mouth and nose. An infant must be on a firm, flat surface.

Note: CPR instructions have been retrieved directly from the American Red Cross online manual (sources found below) for your convenience. Find out more at: www.redcross.org

http://www.redcross.org/images/MEDIA_CustomProductCatalog/m4240175_Pediatric_ready_reference.pdf

http://www.redcross.org/images/MEDIA_CustomProductCatalog/m4240170_Adult_ready_reference.pdf

By: Jessica Porter, Senior Editor

4 Steps For Preserving Family History

4 Steps For Preserving Family History

Every so often an event happens that puts everything into perspective. All those stressors—education, family, careers, and hundreds of other things—become hushed and fade into the background. Just a couple weeks ago, my family found out that my great aunt, who we love and adore,