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Couponing for Beginners

Couponing for Beginners

I grew up in a big family, and my parents were always looking for ways to save money. My mom turned to coupons to buy the necessities without spending ridiculous amounts of money. Couponing can help families and individuals save a lot of money, especially 

Marital Sex Communicator

Marital Sex Communicator

When did you finally learn that a “pee-pee” was actually a penis? Or, when did you learn that women have a clitoris and what its true purpose is? Understanding sexuality is extremely important to having healthy sexuality and effective sexual communication throughout life, and especially 

DIY Frames and Watercolors

DIY Frames and Watercolors

“These walls are just so bare.”  Have those words ever crossed your lips?  It’s happened to all of us at least once.  So, now what?  Maybe you’re broke; maybe you’re on a budget.  Either way, you don’t want to spend a lot of money on walls.  Luckily for you, there’s a cheap fix for your predicament that costs less than $10, and it even allows you to paint your personality all over your barren wall—literally.

So let’s work through this:

Step 1: Determine the amount of surface area that you’re going to want to cover.  Are you going to space your frames far apart or close together?  Do you want a grid-based, or more free-floating look?  Try checking around on platforms such as houzz.com, Pinterest, and Google for inspiration.  Once you’ve decided your desired look, ask yourself: About how many frames will this design need?  Once you have in mind the style of frame that you want and approximately how many you’ll need, you’re ready to get thrifting.

Step 2: Find your nearest local thrift store.  If you’re near us, that’s going to be Deseret  Industries (DI).  Elsewhere, it will range from Salvation Army to Goodwill to your aunt Suzy’s backroom thrift.  These places generally sell used frames for anywhere from $0.50 to $2.00.  That’s not bad at all,  considering your best bet for a brand 

new frame is usually around $5 at the cheapest.  Neutral colors are usually the easiest to find and require the least effort, but remember that it’s easy to spray paint the frames if you’ve decided that fire engine red is what your living room needs.  Be creative!  Do you want an eclectic mirror hanging in the middle?  Go for it.  You’ve been drawn more toward the grid system?  Stick with frames generally the same size, but bear in mind that exactly matching frames will be difficult to find in a thrift store.

Step 3:  Stop by your local crafting store (think Michaels) and grab:

    • Watercolor paper
    • Basic watercolor paints and brushes (these can even be the cheapie sets for kids—we don’t need to be pro’s here)
    • Lots of Command hooks (if you don’t want to drill many, many holes into your walls)

Step 4:  Lay out your frames.  It’s important to do this  BEFORE painting so that you know how to orient your future works of art—cute quotes just don’t look as good sideways, and you’d be surprised how flipping a frame  from horizontal to vertical can ruin the vibes of your perfectly planned wall collage. 

Step 5: Now’s the fun part.  Grab your kids, spouse, roommates, even your dog.  You’ll want to set your table with a few cups of water to clean your paintbrushes and paper towels for dabbing the brushes dry.  It’s time to paint!  But… what to paint?  If creative juices don’t seem to be running through your veins, try searching Pinterest for ideas of easy watercolors.  You can even look for color swatches and try to make all of your watercolors adhere to a particular vibe. 

Step 6:  After your masterpieces have dried, put them into the frames that you’ve laid out (I laid mine out on our living room floor), then carefully transition everything to the wall.  And there you are! 

Step 7:  Snap a picture and tag us on instagram at @stancebyu!  We’d love to see how your projects turned out!

Comfy Seats and Love-Filled Treats

Comfy Seats and Love-Filled Treats

All over the world, people spent this last weekend in comfy seats eating yummy treats while they listened to the voices of modern prophets, apostles, and auxiliary leaders of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints during General Conference. There were monumental announcements and 

Two Hour Church?

Two Hour Church?

During General Conference there were a few astounding announcements, one regarding the length and structure of Sunday church meetings. It was announced that church meetings would be shortened to two hours and an emphasis would be placed on home-centered study. God has heard the prayers 

Killer Recipes: Cake Mix Cookies

Killer Recipes: Cake Mix Cookies

Ingredients: 

One package plain Devil’s Food cake mix*
 1/3 cup water
 4 tablespoons melted butter
 1 large egg
 1 bag (12 oz) semisweet chocolate chips
 1/2 cup walnuts, pecans, or hazelnuts (optional)

Preheat oven to 350°F
1. Lightly grease 2 cookie sheets.
2. Put water, cake, melted butter, and egg in a large mixing bowl. Blend with an electric mixer on low for 1 minute. Stop the machine and scrape down the sides of the bowl with a spatula. Increase speed to medium and beat for 1 more minute. The cookie dough will be thick. Fold in the chocolate chips and nuts.
3. Drop spoonfuls of dough 2 inches apart on the cookie sheets.
4. Bake 10 to 12 minutes (still a little soft in the center). Let cookies rest on pan for 1 minute. Let them cool for 20 minutes.

*You can use any kind of cake mix. Be creative!
Makes 3 dozen cookies

BY LAURA BUSHMAN

Killer Recipes: Homemade Pizza Crust

Killer Recipes: Homemade Pizza Crust

You know that feeling on a lazy Friday night, when you don’t feel like doing anything but watching TV and eating some of your favorite comfort food? I know I do, and while I have many comfort foods I love, pizza has always been a 

Provo Gem: The Soap Factory

Provo Gem: The Soap Factory

Provo. This place has a ton of character to it. Although I complain about the construction and zero parking and bipolar weather most of the time, it really is a great place to live and explore. There are so many startup companies around here that 

Killer Recipes: Amy’s Famous Cheesecake

Killer Recipes: Amy’s Famous Cheesecake

Ingredients
Graham cracker crust:
1 1/2 C graham cracker crumbs
1/2 C sugar
6 T melted butter
1 tsp cinnamon

Mix graham cracker crumbs, sugar, and cinnamon together. Add in melted butter and mix until mixture is sticky enough to put into a pie plate. Push mixture into the pie plate to form a crust and then refrigerate while making the rest of the recipe.

Cheesecake mixture:
2 eggs
3/4 lb of softened cream cheese
1/2 C sugar
1 tsp vanilla
1/2 tsp salt

Preheat oven to 375 degrees. Beat together the 2 eggs. Add in softened cream cheese, sugar, vanilla, and salt. Beat all ingredients until smooth. Pour mixture into cooled graham cracker crust. Bake for 20 minutes. Test the cheesecake to make sure the top is cooked enough, but not too much. Tap your finger on the top lightly and make sure your finger doesn’t just fall through the cake. Take out of oven and sprinkle lightly with cinnamon. Turn oven temperature up to 425 degrees. Make the following top layer while you wait for the oven to get to 425 degrees.

Top layer of cheesecake:
1 1/2 C sour cream
2 T sugar
1/2 tsp vanilla
1/8 tsp salt
Mix all ingredients together in a bowl. Carefully pour it onto the hot cheesecake that you just
took out of the oven. Put cheesecake back in oven for another 5 minutes. After it is cooked, let

Cool at room temperature for about 20 minutes before covering and putting it in the fridge. Serve
either plain or with berry pie toppings. Enjoy!

Limiting Social Media: Dropping the Phone Addiction

Limiting Social Media: Dropping the Phone Addiction

A child tugs on her mom’s pant leg. “MomomomMOMOM!” she yells, begging for attention. “Just hang on, I’m on the phone!” the mother pleads, attempting to finish her conversation. How often have we seen this scene play out in various ways? I remember being that